Wake up and smell the coffee .



So today I feel like I'm in the boxing ring with England VS the USA .Don't you just hate those silly decisions you have to make when like your whole life depends on it! We seriously should hire someone to do these decisions for us because there's way too much paper work  for my liking (not literally). I mean come on I have the decision of moving to the USA for 6 months (or more) or keeping my butt In glorious Britan. ( good joke ay?) . 

So I have been offered a job in the big Texas city  and I now have to decide whether to do the famous run away to the states move or not .Gals and boys it ain't all that easy - trust me. Not only do you have to consider all the amazing things and people you are leaving behind you also have to wait for the big people to decide if they want you in the country or not! I suppose living in an  apartment the size of a mansion , having a swimming pool the size of a field in Bellaire takes the edge of a tincy bit! Guys seriously this is too much 
 ( ....Cheeky smile ) . 

I'd love to ask all you guys what you would do but that would be very silly of me seeing as I'm asking you do you want to stay in England , get soaking wet in the rain , freeze to death waiting for buses that never come, taking the weather mans advice - wearing your favorite dress and vintage sunglasses to only walk out of work mid day to find your feet knee deep in snow . WElCOME TO GOOD OLD BRITAN . Or or or Move to the states and become something between the newyorker and Katy perry ( it's the eyes ) . 

I seriously think there must be a new kind of bug going round ' tell Sammie all the bad things about Texas ' . I kid you not today I have found out ...

1.  I am going to get shot 
2 . I won't have a car il ride a horse 
3 . It is illegal to own a dildo
And my all time fav 4. it is illegal NOT to own a gun . 

After weighing up all my options and hearing everyone's opinions on the big'ol move ! (apparently they were 'valid' ). Its brought me aware of apparently 'being in a relationship' means you cant pursue your dreams . I could not believe my ears when i had people telling me how they planned to move to London and pursue their dream in acting but fell in love and couldn't leave their partner behind so they now work in a call center 9-5 . LADIES AND GENTS !!!!!!!!!!!! WHAT ARE YOU DOING !!!!  

Seriously people , love is an amazing thing but there is no laws on relationships, you cannot throw your dreams away because your worried you may loose your partner. Dreams don't have to be JUST DREAMS. you can make them reality if you work hard enough. You do not need to throw your partner away because your going to live a distance from each other for awhile and you certainly don't need to throw your dream away because your in a relationship. Hand on heart ... i believe that if he/she is the one there is no one else out there for you , you two are ment to be together so no matter what journey you both go on no matter what side of the county , city , country or world you are on you will be together  and you will make it work . Im not saying ' whats ment to be will be ' because ive always believed stuff cannot just fall into place you have to work hard for the things you want in life . What i am saying is there is only 1 person in this world for you , there is far too much of an even number of people out there for you to have 3 or 4 people per person ( sorry to disappoint guys). If you love each other , tell each other everyday , smile as much as possible , laugh the most you ever have , go for your dream as hard as you can hit and always always remember you've got each other forever no matter how far apart or how near , forever . 




p.s il keep you posted on my decision on my state runaway .

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