Wake up call from the heartbreak hotel .

Usually I beat around the bush and slowly ease you into the big lights camera action drama of the day/week/month but what Has been playing on my mind is pretty much something we are all very familiar with , something we know that's there but ignore , something we stay up all night thinking about and spend all day trying to work out . Something that can be our bestfriend and our worst enermy at the same time . 4 letters 1 word 10000 meanings . L O V E. 

We've read endless blogs about how to find it now its time to write about once you have found it what happends next ? 

I think we all are so eager to fall in love we forget to read the terms and conditions , we forget there are side effects . We completely miss the word FALL in the sentence completely.  Not only did I fall I fell smashed down competly made a whole new meaning of hitting rock bottom . 

I never understood the meaning of its better to of loved and lost than to of never loved at all . There was a time I'd sit here and I'd moan that that quote was ridiculous and no one would rather be hurt. But now I can finally sit here and tell you when you love someone it might not be rainbows and butterfly's all the while but it's worth it . You will have your ups and downs and you will walk out screaming you wish you had never met eachother , you will throw his stuff out and you will throw her out , you might spend a few nights crying and you may spend all day fighting but you love eachother and you both know that through every single biccur . Love doesn't go away . When it's here trust me its here to stay . 

Sometimes you'll grow to close you'll feel like a simese twin ! And sometimes you may grow so

Far apart itl take a plane a boat a bus and a bike ride to get back to eachother but if there worth it you'll do everything In your power to be one again. 

Love is exactly like magic  - only a few are left believing in it .  I've started to wonder if most people are in a relationship or married because its the ' right time' they feel as if their clocks ticking way too fast for them to find the one . But my question is how can we ever find the right person if we don't let go of the wrong one ?

Advice for all you love hungry people out there , if you have it and its real .... Hold it . Hold it really really tight and make sure every day you wake up and every time you go to sleep you thank The Lord for giving you the other half of you . 

For all the confused people shake him shake her and wake them up , sit down and sort it out , lock your selves in a room if need be and make sure you tell them what's going wrong before you leave it too late . 

And for all you singlers out there , I promise your time will come and when it does you'll believe every word I say . 

And as for me I'm on a journey at the moment somewhere between loosing the one I love and finding myself . 

Il keep you updated .